The Art of Helping Puts Flesh on Good Intentions

"This is a book you’ll want to read before you need it—so that you will have ideas of what you can do and how you can respond—when you first hear the news….” These are the words author and lecturer Lauren Littauer Briggs wrote on September 10th, 2001, while working on her new book, The Art of Helping (Cook Communications/RiverOak Brand, April 2003). In light of the massive tragedy that shook our nation the following day, the statement proved to be as galvanizing as it was prophetic—people were desperate to help those in need, but most were not emotionally equipped to do so.

The Art of Helping touches a felt need we all experience—wanting to help a hurting person, but not always knowing what to say or do. Both practical and inspirational, this book combines sound tips and suggestions, reference charts summarizing what to say and do in comforting situations, plus poignant personal stories to create a complete guidebook for anyone seeking guidance on how to effectively help a hurting friend or loved one in a time of crisis. “The most important thing we can do for someone who is going through a difficult time is to let them know we care,” says Briggs. “We need to be there for them, spend time with them and write them notes to let them know that we are thinking about them, praying for them and sharing their pain. Realize that their hearts are full of pain and turmoil. We need to be aggressive with our willingness to help. Ask yourself, ‘What would I need if I were in a similar situation?’”